About Us

My Girlfriend’s Closet is an all-volunteer, 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, initiated and managed by a dedicated group of San Diego mothers and their teenage daughters who serve together as an executive board. Our mission is to provide quality, gently used clothing, shoes and accessories free to economically disadvantaged teenage girls, in an atmosphere that enables them to shop with pride. Since our founding in 2005, our mother-daughter shared-responsibility, shared decision-making structure has fulfilled another important objective: To teach these young leaders how to effectively build and operate a volunteer-based nonprofit organization for the benefit of the community.

The Young Women We Serve

We target San Diego-area teenage girls and young women ages 13-22 whose need is greatest – the homeless and those in foster care – by working closely with the social service agencies that serve them.  Additional disadvantaged teens are identified and invited to our clothing distribution events by the community organizations that serve them and their families.  These events are not open to the general public. Currently, My Girlfriend’s Closet serves approximately 800 young women in need each year through the distribution of free, stylish clothing, shoes, and accessories.

Frequently Asked Questions

What does My Girlfriend’s Closet do?

My Girlfriend’s Closet is an all-volunteer nonprofit organization whose mission it is to provide quality, gently used clothing, shoes and accessories free to economically disadvantaged teenage girls, in an atmosphere that enables them to shop with pride. We target San Diego-area teenage girls and young women ages 13-22 whose need is greatest – the homeless and those in foster care through twice yearly events held in the NTC area of Point Loma.

Can I just come to the event? Do I have to make a reservation or RSVP?

No, you cannot just show up to the event. Teens are identified and invited to our clothing distribution events by the community organizations that serve them and their families. These events are not open to the general public. For those that do receive an invitation through their social services agency, a reservation or RSVP is NOT necessary.

Do I have to pay any money to participate?

No. These events are free to the young women aged 13-22 who receive the invitation from their social services agency.

What kinds of stuff could I get? How much can I get?

Gently used clothing, shoes and accessories are provided through donations from all over San Diego County. Name brands and makers vary as donations are made mostly from individuals who step up to help. At the event, you will be given bags that you may fill. Outside or additional bags are not permitted.

When do the events happen?

Events happen twice a year, typically in the fall (August to September) and the early spring (February to March).

Can I volunteer at the event and be a shopper?

No. Volunteers cannot be shoppers, and shoppers cannot be volunteers.

How can I volunteer?

My Girlfriend’s Closet is always looking for dedicated girls who are willing to help make a difference in the lives of local teenagers in need. You could volunteer to hold a clothing collection drive, help sort clothing, volunteer at a distribution event or even apply to join the board. If you have questions or would like more information, please contact us at 619-226-6853 or email us at mgc.sandiego@gmail.com.

How do I run a “collection”?

Many individuals and organizations help by collecting clothing for us. We can provide information on how to make signs and how to organize a collection. It simple to plan and conduct your own drive! If you have questions or would like more information, please contact us at 619-226-6853 or email us at mgc.sandiego@gmail.com.

How can I donate gently used clothing?

MGC constantly accepts donations of any of the following:
Jeans and Pants
Shirts and Sweaters
Shorts and Skirts
Jackets and Coats
Dresses and Party Dresses
Pajamas and Robes
Shoes, Purses, and Hats
Jewelry and Belts
Clean Stuffed Animals
Unopened makeup and toiletries

We collect clothing throughout the year at the drop-off locations listed below. These are private homes. Donations can be left on the front porches, preferably in plastic bags or boxes. If these locations are not convenient, please contact Denise Seymour at (619) 226-6853.

Point Loma
1058 Novara Street
San Diego, CA 92107
or
High Tech High Media Arts
2230 Truxtun Road
3rd Floor
San Diego, CA 92106

Mission Hills
3240 Curlew St.
San Diego, CA 92103

Clairemont
3635 Mt. Blackburn Avenue
San Diego, CA 92111

La Mesa
8317 ½ University Ave.
La Mesa, CA 91942 (House in back on left)

Del Mar
Spa Gregories
2710 Via de la Valle #B-270
San Diego, CA 92014

How can I donate money?

We rely solely on contributions and grants to support our operations. 100% of your donation will be used to purchase needed items and conduct events. All donations are tax deductible to the extent allowed by law. Mail monetary donations to:

My Girlfriend’s Closet
Attn: Sandy Silverman
600 B Street, Suite 2350
San Diego, CA 92101

Upon receipt of your donation, we will send you a letter acknowledging your tax-deductible contribution.

Who can I contact to discuss being a member or with any other questions?

If you have questions or would like more information, please contact us at 619-226-6853 or email us at mgc.sandiego@gmail.com.

Board of Directors

My Girlfriend’s Closet is managed by this volunteer Board of Directors which is comprised of these mother/teen daughter teams: 

Operations
Laney Moss and Sandy Silverman
Collections
Cindy and Donna St. Clair
Juliana and Gretchen D’Auria
Distribution
Devany and Angela Harrell
Carmen (mom) and Carmen (daughter) Ortega
Fundraising
Maya Ervin and Melissa Agudelo
Grants
Gail Goldman
Historian
Carolyn and Katherine Finley
Marketing
Nicole and Judy Bergman
Audrey and Debbie Smith
Outreach
Katy Johnson and Tracey Stotz
Kaitlin and Teresa Hall
Recruitment
Ishanti Gold and Sky Diaz
Secretary
Jaclyn and Doreen Estrin
Sorting
Tia Farnsworth and Susan Blair
Shannon Jaros and Linda Pendleton
Allie and Susan Omens
Treasurer
Tracey Makings
Web Management
Hana Obata Fineman and Mary Obata
Member at Large
Denise Seymour
Advisory
Barbara Ouellette

Our Partners

My Girlfriend’s Closet is grateful to the following organizations for their generous financial support:

  • Day for Change
  • La Jolla Kiwanis Club
  • Law Offices of Kimball, Tirey & St. John LLP
  • Poiset and Associates
  • SDG&E
  • Sycuan Band of Kumeyaay Nation

My Girlfriend’s Closet acknowledges the following organizations for their in-kind support of our efforts:

  • Ad2 San Diego
  • Contemporary Women of North County
  • Del Mar Dress Company
  • Finch Bistro and Wine Bar
  • McMillin Event Center at NTC
  • San Diego First Church
  • A Silver Linings Boutique
  • Spa Gregorie’s Day Spa and Salon
  • UC San Diego Extension Digital Arts Center
  • Brighton at University Towne Center
  • Spin Again Resale Shop